Growth, it's this big, hefty word we throw around, right? It's like the holy grail of life and work. But not all growth is the same. Some folks roll with whatever life throws at them. Let's call that accidental growth because you trip into it. But then, some folks are all in, steering their life like they've got a map and a mission. That's what we call intentional growth.

John Maxwell, my friend and Mentor, always says intentional growth changes the game. It's not just about getting better at stuff; it's about changing the core of who you are and what you can do. We will dig into these two different roads—the accidental road and the intentional road—and see why one might leave you with a bunch of 'what ifs' and the other can take you to places you've dreamed of.

So, what's your growth looking like? Are you just waiting for things to happen to you? How's that working out? If you keep that path, do you think you'll bump into your goals one day? Or do you want to grab the wheel and drive?

Accidental growth is easy to spot. It's in the "I'll start tomorrow" and the "Someday I'll get there." But let's get honest—does tomorrow ever turn into today? Change doesn't just happen because the calendar flips over. Change happens when you make it happen.

Have you ever stood at the airport waiting for a ship? Nope, because that's not where ships come in. Growth isn't going to find you if you sit around. Sure, making mistakes can teach you a thing or two, but why not learn from others and get ahead of the game?

Leaving it to luck isn't the way, either. When the going gets tough, will you pack it up and call it a day? Are you talking about a big game but not playing? That's the accidental way, friend. And it's a one-way ticket to Could-Have-Been-Ville.

Now, could you think about a ship? It's safe in the harbor, but that's not what it's made for. You're not meant to go with the flow and hope for the best. Did you get talent? Awesome. But talent without getting down to business is like having a fancy car with no gas. You're not going anywhere.

We can't let our growth be a game of chance. It's got to be as sure as the sun coming up, as specific as your heartbeat. People who grow intentionally are the ones who lead, who make waves, and who go beyond.

Getting on that intentional road is like setting out on an adventure, compass in hand, heading somewhere unique. So that you know, you've got to start today. No more "someday." And take charge. You're the boss of you.

And don't just wait to mess up to learn. Get wisdom from books, from people who've been there. Work hard, and keep at it because that's the secret sauce of intentional growth. Build those good habits. They're like armor for your future self.

Take risks. Be a learner every single day. Count on who you are on the inside to guide you. And don't you ever stop growing? Your potential? It's like the ocean—vast and endless. So, which way are we going to go? Is it the accidental way or the intentional way?

Here's the deal. We've got two players in this game: the accidental grower and the intentional grower. Which one are you? Are you reacting to whatever life tosses at you or moving your pieces with strategy?

Let's think about this. If your career was a graph, would it be a crazy zigzag or a steady climb? When tough times hit, do you fold or find a way through? Because let me tell you, every bump in the road is there to teach you something, to make you stronger.

In my coaching, I see it all the time. Intentional growers are not just bosses but leaders, builders, and creators. They don't just manage stuff; they make stuff happen. And they show everyone around them that this is how it's done—with discipline, learning, and guts.

So, here's your moment of truth. Are you letting the script of life happen to you, or are you grabbing a pen and writing your own epic story? Every single day, you're making decisions about writing that script. So, what's it going to be?

This isn't just about doing stuff. It's about being someone on a mission who never stops leveling up. Because in the end, the 'on purpose' growers don't just stumble into success. They own it. They define it.

I'd like to wrap this up with something I would like you to consider. In all my time as a coach, I've seen folks floating, and I'm unsure where they're headed. They're on a boat with no sail, drifting wherever the current takes them. That's what I call 'going with the flow' growth. Then there are the folks with their hands firmly on the wheel, charting their course. They're the ones with a map and a plan, catching the wind in their sails on purpose.

My friend and mentor, John Maxwell, says it's all about being deliberate, disciplined, and knowing your direction.

Switching from 'go with the flow' to 'growing on purpose' isn't just a little tweak. It's like waking up. It's deciding you're tired of sleeping through your life and ready to start living it. It means dropping that anchor holding you back and setting sail towards opportunities.

This change doesn't happen overnight. It's about making little daily choices, small steps that add up. I'm talking about building habits, those tiny things you always do that steer where you're going.

So, what can you do to ensure you're growing on purpose? Here's a little roadmap:

• Set Specific Goals: What's your destination? You've got to know where you're headed to get there.

• Embrace Responsibility: You're the captain of your ship. No blaming the wind or the waves.

• Engage in Lifelong Learning: Keep collecting those treasure maps of knowledge.

• Cultivate Discipline and Consistency: Make good habits with your crewmates.

• Act with Purpose: Everything you do should help you sail closer to your goals.

• Reflect Regularly: Check your compass. Are you still going the right way?

• Adjust and Adapt: Sometimes, you've got to change course to catch the best wind.

And here's a little checklist to keep you on track. Call it your captain's log:

Intentional Growth Checklist:

•  Did I set clear, actionable goals?

•  Am I taking full responsibility for where I'm headed?

•  Am I learning something new every day?

•  Do I use what I learn to make things better?

•  Are my daily habits helping me get closer to where I want to be?

•  Do I check in on my progress and switch things up when I need to?

•  Am I tough enough to handle changes and challenges?

•  Do I ask for and use feedback to grow?

Remember, the ocean you're sailing on is vast and full of possibilities. Growing intentionally isn't just one way to live; it's the only way to make the most of your voyage.

And there you have it, your compass pointing towards an intentional life, sails ready to catch the wind. Now, it's over to you. Would you be prepared to take the helm? If you're nodding along, thinking, "Yes, it's my time to steer my ship," I've got something for you.

Let's make this more than just a chat. Let's turn it into action. If you're ready to embark on this journey to an intentional life where every day is a step toward your dreams, I'm here to guide you. Whether setting those goals, building resilient habits, or finding your direction, you don't have to navigate these waters alone.

Would you be ready to set sail? Click on the link below to start your journey to an intentional life together. It's your time to shine, to be the captain of your destiny, and to live life on your terms.

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